Friday, February 9, 2024

Somewhere in the Lowcountry

 

Yesterday, sitting together,
At the two ends of our grey, worn-out sofa,
We looked into each other's eyes,
With a silent acknowledgment,
That our endless discussions on,
Where to retire, where to live,
Cannot drag on forever, for

Time, once abundant,
Now feels limited.

We realized, that now is the time,
To simplify our needs:
A small postage-stamp home,
Somewhere in the Lowcountry,
Where four seasons color the pages
Of the wall calendar in different hues,
Will suffice,
And yes, a Total Wine,
Within a thirty-minute drive.

In that place, we can settle,
Living together and learning,
How to be alone,
After one of us departs.

Saturday, February 3, 2024

Ephemeral Possessions


The final evening, and it is time to inspect, then re-inspect, every drawer and the closet’s darkest recesses, ensuring nothing of mine remains, no trace for the cleaning lady to find come tomorrow, and discard into the bin beneath the table, mingling with the rest of the refuse.

It is easy to overlook the fact that one day, all that I possess, will be left behind, to be disbursed, scattered or discarded.

Dystopia or Utopia - Let us wager on their chances

 

Most dystopian, classic, and contemporary, paints a future world that puts a twist on present society — a future world that could plausibly happen — Lauren DeStefano

Arun Kumar



The word “dystopia” often conjures up stereotypical images, likely influenced by futuristic science fiction movies depicting dystopian worlds.

Imagine a world enveloped in darkness and cold, where people huddle around fires for warmth. Buildings, once bustling with life, now stand as hollow shells. The streets are eerily silent, save for the occasional gust of wind stirring up dust and debris. Suddenly, a drone whirs overhead, its red scanning light sweeping the area. Figures quickly take cover behind dilapidated cars, their breath hitching as they wait for the drone to pass.

Why are there more movies devoted to dystopian civilizations than their utopian counterparts?

It is because dystopian worlds are inherently more interesting and adaptable for compelling narratives. Emerging from a dystopian world makes for a captivating story, where the protagonist triumphs over the evil running the police state and restores harmony.

Dystopian worlds provide fertile grounds for heroic journeys and recreations of epic tales like the Odyssey.

In contrast, what story can one write about a utopian state? A place where every day mirrors the previous one, and nothing really happens. Meanwhile, in dystopia, a new story of bravery or treachery unfolds every hour.

Or perhaps the prevalence of dystopian movies is because science fiction writers’ sense that dystopia is a more probable outcome?

If I were to wager, that is where I would place my bet. Deep down, we realize that achieving utopia would require collective human traits we currently lack, and furthermore, what utopia may require could contradict some fundamental laws of nature.

Why so?

Maintaining a utopia would necessitate traits like empathy, compassion, tolerance, and a sense of equity. It would require humanity to adopt a growth mindset, devoting their time to constructive activities and defying the adage that “an idle mind is the devil’s workshop.” After all, this proverb is rooted in the observation that a person with nothing productive to do is more likely to engage in harmful activities, and a bored mind is more prone to negative behaviors or thoughts.

Considering our current state and the state of our world, having such collective traits seems highly unlikely. Of course, we may wise up as we evolve, or after surviving a few calamities (for example, the inevitable consequences of climate change), we might finally realize that if we do not change, there may not be a tomorrow and we may not get another chance.

The sight of everyone engrossed in their smartphones on the subway or at the airport does not inspire much confidence that we are collectively heading towards a growth mindset or wisely using our time.

Another formidable adversary of utopia is the universality of the bell curve.

The human mind and traits are bound to deviate from the norm necessary to maintain utopia, requiring external control to nip them in the bud. These deviations from utopian norms need to be weeded out before they amplify due to positive feedback. This scenario was vividly depicted in the novel Divergent.

Can we have a utopian society with the freedom for humanity to live on a bell curve? Can we have a utopian society whose norms include freedom of speech, lack of central authority control, and the right to bear arms?

Discussing external controls to minimize deviations from utopian norms certainly echoes elements of dystopia.

Returning to our initial discussion about the prevalence of dystopian worlds in science fiction and movies, it may be rooted in the logic that a stable state of utopia is an impossible achievement. Furthermore, it seems much easier to descend into a dystopian state than to ascend to its utopian counterpart.

And then there is the undeniable fact that dystopian worlds make for more intriguing and captivating stories. And we love stories.

Ciao.

Sunday, January 28, 2024

Today, I had retired

 

As dusk unfurls its shadowy blanket,
and sporadic flutters of sparrow’s wings echo
through the tranquil sanctuary of my bedroom’s
open window,

it's time to peel off the day's attire,
the cocoon in which I journeyed
from the soft familiarity of home
to a different identity of work then back,
and consign them to the hamper's depths.

To prepare for the same tomorrow,
a ritual that has been etched in the sands of time
it's also time to confront the closet,
to select the hues that will adorn my skin
tomorrow.

But tonight, the closet stood barren,
a hollow echo of what once was.
there was nothing in there
to change into.

I stood puzzled, bare and vulnerable,
like a deer caught in the glaring headlight,
and it slowly dawned on me,
like the first rays of a daybreak,
that today, I had let go
a significant part of me.

Today, I had retired.